Reflections From the Fence: Julian Henri Picot & his wife Antoinette Sara (nee) Vann Picot & Two of Their Children, Research Report, the As It Is Series.

This continues what I hope I can turn into a series of posts, done in a very efficient (make that speedy fast) manner to share some research on the ancestors. This is NOT intended to be the end all to end all report. It's a work in progress, to show you what I have found, right or wrong. Kind feedback is welcomed via comments.

Let's begin - -

Meet Julian Henri Picot and his wife Antoinette Sara (nee) Vann Picot.

You will note, I have very little entered in the data base about them. That is because, frankly, I have not researched them past the connection with their children - - -

I will point out that both have a presence at Find A Grave, Julian can be found at # 19026658 and Antoinette can be found at # 19239325. If you visit their memorials, you will see there are 6 children linked to their parents. Seems someone has done considerable research on this family, but for now, I am only interested in their children, Guy and Rowena.

First let's chat about Guy:

G. C. Picot

Virginia, U.S., Select Marriages, 1785-1940

No record image

Name: G. C. Picot

Gender: Male

Marital Status: Single

Race: White

Age: 27

Birth Date: 1858

Birth Place: N. C.

Marriage Date: 19 Feb 1885

Marriage Place: Southampton, Virginia

Father: Julian H. Picot

Mother: Antoinette S. Picot

Spouse: Rosalind E. Darden

FHL Film Number: 34035

Reference ID: Pg 402

Guy C Picot

in the U.S., Appointments of U. S. Postmasters, 1832-1971

Name: Guy C Picot

Post Office Location: Como, Hertford, North Carolina

Appointment Date: 23 Dec 1889

Volume #: 69

Volume Year Range: 1889-1930

Guy Carleton Picot

in the North Carolina, U.S., Death Certificates, 1909-1976

Gender: Male

Race: White

Age: 98

Birth Date: 20 Mar 1857

Birth Place: como Hertford NC

Residence Place: Como, Hertford, North Carolina

Death Date: 5 Jun 1955

Death Place: Como, Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Father: Julian Henri Picot

Mother: Antoinette Sara Vann

From the News and Observer, Raleigh, North Carolina, published on June 6, 1955:

"GUY C. PICOT.

COMO - - Guy Carlton Picot, 96, ?dent of Hertford County. He was a retired farmer and merchant and a lifelong resident of Hertford County. He was a member of Buckhorn Baptist Church, which he served as senior deacon for many years. He was the son of the late Julian Henri Picot of Plymouth and Antionette Sara Vann Picot of Como. His wife, Rosaline Darden Picot, died in January, 1952. Mr. Picot was the only surviving charter member of the Hunt Club, which was begun in October, 1887. He is survived by five daughters, Miss Antionnette Vann Picot, Miss Marion Barham Picot, Miss Marietta Blount Picot, Miss Hannah Barham Picot, all of Como, and Mrs. Vernon Tucker of Suffolk, Va.; three sons, Huge Baird Picot of Como, guy Carleton Picot Jr. of Richmond, Va., and Harvey Baylis Picot of Franklin, Va.; five grandchildren; one brother, M. W. Picot of Suffolk. Funeral services will be held at the Buckhorn Church here Tuesday at 2 p.m. The Rev. E. Norfleet Gardner of Laurinburg, the Rev. R. D. Stephenson of Norfolk, the Rev. L. E. Dailey and the Rev. J. E. Lanier will officiate. Burial will be in the church cemetery."

Guy's Find A Grave memorial # is 93770641.

Since my primary point of interest was in the research of his wife, Rosalind, the census enumerations ended up in her bio. The spellings of extractions and transcriptions are a wonder to behold.

Rosaline Darden

in the 1870 United States Federal Census

Name: Rosaline Darden

Age in 1870: 4

Birth Date: abt 1866

Birthplace: Virginia

Dwelling Number: 297

Home in 1870: Jerusalem, Southampton, Virginia

Race: White

Gender: Female

Post Office: Jerusalem

Occupation: At Home

Cannot Read: Yes

Cannot Write: Yes

Inferred Father: Rufus E Darden

Inferred Mother: Martha R Darden

Household Members Age

Rufus E Darden 28

Martha R Darden 30

Rosaline Darden 4

Jno D Darden 3

Francis J Darden 1

Louisa Barham 59

Rosoline Dardew

in the 1880 United States Federal Census

Name: Rosoline Dardew

[Darden]

Age: 14

Birth Date: Abt 1866

Birthplace: Virginia

Home in 1880: Newsoms, Southampton, Virginia, USA

Dwelling Number: 30

Race: White

Gender: Female

Relation to Head of House: Daughter

Marital Status: Single

Father's Name: Rufus E. Dardew

Father's Birthplace: Virginia

Mother's Name: Martha R. Dardew

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Attended School: Yes

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Rufus E. Dardew 38 Self (Head)

Martha R. Dardew 49 Wife

Rosoline Dardew 14 Daughter

John B. Dardew 13 Son

Fannie J. Dardew 11 Daughter

Eddie T. Dardew 9 Son

Lou Dardew 6 Daughter

Rosaline E Pical

in the 1900 United States Federal Census

Name: Rosaline E Pical

[Rosaline E Picot]

Age: 30

Birth Date: Dec 1869

Birthplace: Virginia, USA

Home in 1900: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina

House Number: 3

Sheet Number: 11

Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation: 170

Family Number: 181

Race: White

Gender: Female

Relation to Head of House: Wife

Marital Status: Married

Spouse's Name: Guy E Pical

Marriage Year: 1885

Years Married: 15

Father's Birthplace: Virginia, USA

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia, USA

Mother: number of living children: 5

Mother: How many children: 7

Can Read: Yes

Can Write: Yes

Can Speak English: Yes

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Guy E Pical 43 Head

Rosaline E Pical 30 Wife

Antoinette Pical 13 Daughter

Carlton S Pical 10 Son

Marion Pical 8 Son

Marietta Pical 6 Daughter

Hugh Pical 2 Son

Melinda Pittman 54 Aunt

Rosa Cotton 13 Servant

Mark Halstead 18 Servant

J N Magette 30 Servant

Rosalind E Picut

in the 1910 United States Federal Census

Name: Rosalind E Picut

[Rosalind E Picot]

Age in 1910: 44

[49]

Birth Date: 1866

[1866]

Birthplace: Virginia

Home in 1910: Manneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Race: White

Gender: Female

Relation to Head of House: Wife

Marital Status: Married

Spouse's Name: G C Picut

Father's Birthplace: Virginia

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Native Tongue: English

Years Married: 15

Number of Children Born: 12

Number of Children Living: 10

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

G C Picut 53 Head

Rosalind E Picut 44 Wife

Antoinett V Picut 23 Daughter

Carlton S Picut 20 Son

Marrion B Picut 18 Daughter

Mariettie B Picut 16 Daughter

Hugh B Picut 12 Son

Hallet E Picut 10 Son

Rebecca M Picut 7 Daughter

Harvey B Picut 5 Son

Rosalind E Picot

in the 1920 United States Federal Census

Name: Rosalind E Picot

Age: 54

Birth Year: abt 1866

Birthplace: Virginia

Home in 1920: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina

Street: Como-Murfeesboro Road

Residence Date: 1920

Race: White

Gender: Female

Relation to Head of House: Wife

Marital Status: Married

Spouse's Name: Guy C Picot

Father's Birthplace: Virginia

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Able to Speak English: Yes

Able to read: Yes

Able to Write: Yes

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Guy C Picot 63 Head

Rosalind E Picot 54 Wife

Antoinette V Picot 32 Daughter

Scarboro C Picot 30 Son

Marion B Picot 28 Daughter

Marietta B Picot 25 Daughter

Hugh B Picot 22 Son

Hallet E Picot 19 Son

Rebecca M Picot 17 Daughter

Harvey B Picot 14 Son

Hannah B Picot 12 Daughter

Guy C Picot Jr 9 Son

Rosaline E Picot

in the 1930 United States Federal Census

Name: Rosaline E Picot

Birth Year: abt 1870

Gender: Female

Race: White

Age in 1930: 60

Birthplace: Virginia

Marital Status: Married

Relation to Head of House: Wife

Homemaker?: Yes

Home in 1930: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Map of Home: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina

Street Address: State Highway 12

Dwelling Number: 255

Family Number: 260

Age at First Marriage: 19

Attended School: No

Able to Read and Write: Yes

Father's Birthplace: Virginia

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Able to Speak English: Yes

Household Members Age Relationship

Guy C Picot 72 Head

Rosaline E Picot 60 Wife

Antionette U Picot 35 Daughter

Marion D Picot 34 Daughter

Hugh B Picot 30 Son

Rebecca M Picot 23 Daughter

Hannah B Picot 21 Daughter

Carr G Picot 19 Son

Rosalina Picot

in the 1940 United States Federal Census

Name: Rosalina Picot

[Rosalind Picot]

Age: 70

Estimated Birth Year: abt 1870

Gender: Female

Race: White

Birthplace: Virginia

Marital Status: Married

Relation to Head of House: Wife

Home in 1940: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina

Map of Home in 1940: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina

Inferred Residence in 1935: Rural, Southampton, Virginia

Residence in 1935: Rural, Southampton, Virginia

Sheet Number: 6B

Attended School or College: No

Highest Grade Completed: College, 4th year

Income: 0

Income Other Sources: No

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Guy C Picot 83 Head

Rosalina Picot 70 Wife

Antoinette V Picot 40 Daughter

Marion B Picot 38 Daughter

Hugh B Picot 36 Son

Rebie B Picot 34 Daughter

Hannah B Picot 32 Daughter

Bob Ridick 45 Hired Man

Hardy Ridick 35 Lodger

Rosalind Darden Picot

in the North Carolina, U.S., Death Certificates, 1909-1976

Name: Rosalind Darden Picot

[Rosalind Darden Darden]

Gender: Female

Race: White

Age: 84

Birth Date: 3 Dec 1867

Birth Place: Southampton, Virginia, United States

Residence Place: Como, Hertford, North Carolina

Death Date: 7 Jan 1952

Death Place: Como, Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Father: Rufus Edwards Darden

Mother: Martha Rebecca Barham

From the News and Observer, Raleigh, North Carolina, published on January 8, 1952:

"MRS. GUY C. PICOT.

MURFREESBORO - - Mrs. Rosalind Darden Picot of Como, wife of Guy Carlton Picot, died late Monday afternoon at her home after several months of illness. She was a daughter of the late Rufus Edwards Darden and Martha Rebecca Barham, both of Southampton County, Va. She was a member of Buckhorn Baptist Church and for 60 years a resident of Como. Surviving are her husband, five daughters, Antionette Vann Picot, Marion B. Picot, Marietta B. Picot, Hannah B. Picot, all of Como, and Mrs. Vernon Tucker, Suffolk, Va.; three sons, Huge Baird Picot, Como, Guy C., Jr., Richmond Va., Harvey B. Picot, Franklin, V.; four grandchildren. Funeral arrangements are incomplete."

Additional obituaries and additional information can be found at the Southampton County Virginia USGenWeb Archives. It's a great resource, I highly recommend it.

Rosalind's Find A Grave memorial # is 93770929.

I hope you have noted her parents are Rufus Edward and Martha Rebecca (nee Barham) Darden.

Next, let's learn a bit about Julian and Antoinette's' daughter, Rowena:

Rowena Picot

in the 1880 United States Federal Census

Name: Rowena Picot

Age: 8

Birth Date: Abt 1872

Birthplace: North Carolina

Home in 1880: Rich Square, Northampton, North Carolina, USA

Dwelling Number: 14

Race: White

Gender: Female

Relation to Head of House: Daughter

Marital Status: Single

Father's Name: Julian H. Picot

Father's Birthplace: North Carolina

Mother's Name: Antoinette Picot

Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina

Occupation: At Home

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Julian H. Picot 48 Self (Head)

Antoinette Picot 44 Wife

John W. Picot 17 Son

Antoinette Picot 12 Daughter

Rowena Picot 8 Daughter

Maury Picot 6 Son

Harvey Picot 1 Son

Teana R R Pical

in the 1900 United States Federal Census

Name: Teana R R Pical

[Irena R R Picot]

Age: 29

Birth Date: Feb 1876

Birthplace: North Carolina, USA

Home in 1900: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina

House Number: 3

Sheet Number: 11

Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation: 176

Family Number: 187

Race: White

Gender: Female

Relation to Head of House: Daughter

Marital Status: Single

Father's Name: Julian Pical

Father's Birthplace: North Carolina, USA

Mother's Name: Antoinette Pical

Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina, USA

Can Read: Yes

Can Write: Yes

Can Speak English: Yes

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Julian Pical 68 Head

Antoinette Pical 69 Wife

Teana R R Pical 29 Daughter

Harvey B Pical 21 Son

Henry Wilson 18 Servant

Harriett Barnes 58 Servant

Roena S Darden

in the 1910 United States Federal Census

Name: Roena S Darden

[Roena S Picot]

Age in 1910: 39

Birth Date: 1871

[1871]

Birthplace: North Carolina

Home in 1910: Manneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Race: White

Gender: Female

Relation to Head of House: Daughter

Marital Status: Married

Spouse's Name: Eddie T Darden

Father's Name: Julian H Picot

Father's Birthplace: North Carolina

Mother's Name: Antoinett S Picot

Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina

Native Tongue: English

Able to read: Yes

Able to Write: Yes

Years Married: 4

Number of Children Born: 2

Number of Children Living: 2

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Julian H Picot 77 Head

Antoinett S Picot 74 Wife

Eddie T Darden 39 Son-in-law

Roena S Darden 39 Daughter

Rufus E Darden 3 Grandson

Antoinett C Darden 1 Granddaughter

Lilla Myers 56 Servant

Reona Myers 14 Servant

Betsy Wyms 10 Servant

Sallie Romer Peet

in the North Carolina, U.S., Marriage Records, 1741-2011

Name: Sallie Romer Peet

Gender: Female

Race: White

Age: 34

Birth Year: abt 1871

Marriage Date: 24 Dec 1905

Marriage Place: Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Father: Julia H Peet **Julian, bad transcription

Mother: Antonnette S Peet

Spouse: E T Darden

Spouse Gender: Male

Spouse Race: White

Spouse Age: 34

Spouse Father: Rufus E Darden

Spouse Mother: Martha Darden

Event Type: Marriage

Tena Picot Darden

in the North Carolina, U.S., Death Certificates, 1909-1976

Name: Tena Picot Darden

[Tena Picot Picot]

Gender: Female

Race: White

Age: 75

Birth Date: 16 Dec 1870

Birth Place: como Hertford NC

Residence Place: Corno, Hertford, North Carolina

Death Date: 26 Sep 1946

Death Place: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Father: Julian H Picot

Mother: Antionette Vann

Spouse: Eddie T Darden

Mrs Tena P Darden

in the North Carolina, U.S., Wills and Probate Records, 1665-1998

Name: Mrs Tena P Darden

Probate Date: 5 Dec 1946

Probate Place: Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Inferred Death Year: 1946

Inferred Death Place: North Carolina, USA

Item Description: Administrators Records, Vol 4-6, 1937-1963

Others Listed

Tena P Darden

From the News and Observer, Raleigh, North Carolina, published on September 27, 1946:

"MRS. PENA P. DARDEN.

Murfreesboro. - - Mrs. Pena Picot Darden, widow of Eddie T. Darden, died Thursday afternoon at her home in Como after an extended illness.

Mrs. Darden was the daughter of the late Dr. Julian H. and Antoinette Vann Picot of Hertford County. She was born December 16, 1870. Since childhood she had been a member of Buckhorn Baptist Church where she taught Sunday School class and was organist for over 20 years.

Surviving are two daughters, Antoinette Darden, Mrs. Rosser B. Bryant and one son, Rufus E. Darden, all of Como; one grandson, R. B. Bryant Jr.; two brothers, G. C. Picot of Como and M. W. Picot of Suffolk, Va.; a number of nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be held Friday at 3:30 p.m. at Buckhorn Baptist Church, conducted by the Rev. J. E. Lanier, assisted by the Rev. E. Norfleet Gardner. Interment will be in the church cemetery."

Rowena has a Find A Grave memorial at # 93925372.

Next, what we have learned/found about Rowena's husband, Edward Theophilus “Eddie” Darden:

Eddie T. Dardew

in the 1880 United States Federal Census

Name: Eddie T. Dardew

[Darden]

Age: 9

Birth Date: Abt 1871

Birthplace: Virginia

Home in 1880: Newsoms, Southampton, Virginia, USA

Dwelling Number: 30

Race: White

Gender: Male

Relation to Head of House: Son

Marital Status: Single

Father's Name: Rufus E. Dardew

Father's Birthplace: Virginia

Mother's Name: Martha R. Dardew

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Attended School: Yes

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Rufus E. Dardew 38 Self (Head)

Martha R. Dardew 49 Wife

Rosoline Dardew 14 Daughter

John B. Dardew 13 Son

Fannie J. Dardew 11 Daughter

Eddie T. Dardew 9 Son

Lou Dardew 6 Daughter

Eddie T Dordin

in the 1900 United States Federal Census

Name: Eddie T Dordin

[Eddie T Darden]

Age: 29

Birth Date: Feb 1871

Birthplace: Virginia, USA

Home in 1900: Newsom, Southampton, Virginia

Sheet Number: 19

Number of Dwelling in Order of Visitation: 354

Family Number: 362

Race: White

[Black]

Gender: Male

Relation to Head of House: Boarder

Marital Status: Single

Father's Birthplace: Virginia, USA

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia, USA

Occupation: Pm Buyer

Can Read: Yes

Can Write: Yes

Can Speak English: Yes

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Joe F Chiniry 31 Head ** Channing

Louiza Chiniry 25 Wife

Charles E Chiniry 12 Nephew

William M Cole 20 Nephew

Rufin E Dordin 58 Boarder

Bettie Barnes 20 Cook

Eddie T Dordin 29 Boarder

E T Darden

in the North Carolina, U.S., Marriage Records, 1741-2011

Name: E T Darden

Gender: Male

Race: White

Age: 34

Birth Year: abt 1871

Marriage Date: 24 Dec 1905

Marriage Place: Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Father: Rufus E Darden

Mother: Martha Darden

Spouse: Sallie Romer Peet. ** I see Picot on the image of the record.

Spouse Gender: Female

Spouse Race: White

Spouse Age: 34

Spouse Father: Julia H Peet **bad extraction, I see Julian on the image

Spouse Mother: Antonnette S Peet

Event Type: Marriage

Eddie T Darden

in the 1910 United States Federal Census

Name: Eddie T Darden

Age in 1910: 39

Birth Date: 1871

[1871]

Birthplace: Virginia

Home in 1910: Manneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina, USA

Race: White

Gender: Male

Relation to Head of House: Son-in-law

[Aunt-in-law]

Marital Status: Married

Spouse's Name: Roena S Darden

Father's Birthplace: Virginia

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Native Tongue: English

Occupation: Mail Carrier

Industry: Floral Fire Delivery

Employer, Employee or Other: Wage Earner

Able to read: Yes

Able to Write: Yes

Years Married: 4

Out of Work: N

Number of Weeks Out of Work: 32

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Julian H Picot 77 Head

Antoinett S Picot 74 Wife

Eddie T Darden 39 Son-in-law

Roena S Darden 39 Daughter

Rufus E Darden 3 Grandson

Antoinett C Darden 1 Granddaughter

Lilla Myers 56 Servant

Reona Myers 14 Servant

Betsy Wyms 10 Servant

Edward T Darden

in the 1920 United States Federal Census

Name: Edward T Darden

Age: 48

Birth Year: abt 1872

Birthplace: Virginia

Home in 1920: Maneys Neck, Hertford, North Carolina

Street: Como-Statesville Road

House Number: X

Residence Date: 1920

Race: White

Gender: Male

Relation to Head of House: Head

Marital Status: Married

Spouse's Name: Sarah R Darden

Father's Birthplace: Virginia

Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Able to Speak English: Yes

Occupation: Mail Carrier

Industry: Rural (Real)

Employment Field: Wage or Salary

Home Owned or Rented: Owned

Home Free or Mortgaged: Free

Able to read: Yes

Able to Write: Yes

Neighbors: View others on page

Household Members Age Relationship

Edward T Darden 48 Head

Sarah R Darden 49 Wife

Rufus E Darden 13 Son

Antoinette C Darden 11 Daughter

Rowena V Darden 9 Daughter

Antoinette S Picot 83 Mother-in-law

Obituary transcribed by file transcribed by Mrs. Bruce Saunders

http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm

http://www.usgwarchives.net/va/vafiles.htm

EDWARD T. DARDEN

Mr. E.T. Darden of Como, N.C. a former resident of and native of Southampton County, died suddenly at Como, N.C., Monday morning, May 9. He was the son of the late Captain Rufus Darden of Newsoms and a brother of Jno. B. Darden and Mrs. J.H. Channing of Newsoms, having many warm friends in this section who will regret to know of his death.

He is survived by his wife, who was Miss Tina Picot, daughter of Mrs. Antoinette Picot and the late Captain Julian H. Picot of Como, two daughters and one son, and was a brother of Mrs. C.G. Pico of Como.

The funeral services were conducted from his late residence in Como Tuesday afternoon at 2:30 o'clock by Rev. E. Norfleet Gardner, pastor of Buckhorn Baptist Church, assisted by Rev. J.P. Essex of Newsoms and Dr. W.V. Savage of Churchland, interment following in the churchyard burying ground. The pallbearers were G.C., L.J., T.B., H.E. and H.B. Picot, John B. Darden, Jr., William Darden and J.H. Channing of Newsoms.

[Edward T. DARDEN, Southampton Co. native, d. 9 May 1921, Como, NC, interred in Buckhorn Baptist Church Cemetery, Como, NC, 10 May 1921, "The Tidewater News" (Franklin, VA), May 13, 1921, p. 7]

Edward has a Find A Grave memorial at # 93925346.

Again, I point out that the parents of Edward Theophilus “Eddie” Darden are Rufus Edward Darden and his wife Martha Rebecca (nee Barham) Darden.

So, what we have is two siblings of the Picot family marrying two siblings of the Darden family.

However, that is not the only double marriage in this gang. Two more of Rufus and Martha's children marry siblings, two daughters, marry two brothers. This was discussed somewhat in my post titled "Charles Edward Channing, Research Report, the As It Is Series.", published here on January 26, 2022. Next post I shall discuss in more detail, the biological and adoptive parents of Charles, they being these daughters and sons.

If you are confused, you should have been sitting with me whilst I did the research, I had several headaches and pulled out a few strands of hair.

* Disclaimers, I use Find A Grave, Ancestry dot com, FamilySearch, several newspaper subscriptions, free sites, such as Virginia Chronicles, Virginia Chancery Cases online at the Library of Virginia and more to research my ancestors. I pay for subscriptions, full price.

** My judgements may or may not be correct. Transcriptions may or may not have errors.

*** Links, URL's, for the most part will not be included henceforth on my posts, as so many of them change and then I have to come back and try to re-discover and relink. Frankly folks, I have no desire to spend my limited time here on this side of the sod with those kinds of do overs. As researchers, or just members of the internet community, sites such as Find A Grave are easy to find, some are free to use and with the information I am sharing you, hopefully, you can duplicate the research/findings. That said, I have seen memorials at Find A Grave be removed. If you have questions, I suggest you leave a nice comment for me. OR find the method I have outlined on my blog for contacting me.